Mommy misses her kids
I have been working a lot. A lot.
When I walked into the house today, Jordan squealed with excitement. She scrambled up the stairs. She babbled to her heart’s delight. She missed me.
I’ve been swamped at the beginning of a new semester – There has been a culmination of projects that need attention at the same time. Plus, my class more than doubled in size. I have so many people to train, fires to put out… I could go on and on.
But let me tell you about my girl.
She’s now 25 months old. 25 months. Can you believe it?
In this past month, her ability to communicate has SKYROCKETED! She knows what she wants and often puts together the words that helps us know what she wants. She knows colors WHEN she wants to tell us the right color. She wants to sing the ABC’s but doesn’t always feel like she needs to say the right letters at the right time. She loves to play the piano and she loves to be in charge. She warmed up to her daddy this month. She gets upset if she wakes up late and he already went to work. She hugs and kisses him more. She leans on him for comforting sometimes. She’s growing up.
She knows how to say her brother’s name and she loves him on her own terms. She’s very demanding of him and she always wants what he’s doing. Lately she gets upset about her breakfast. No matter what, she’d rather eat what’s in his bowl. Who cares if they have the exact same breakfast. She wants HIS.
We continue to talk about potty training. She is not comfortable with actually using the potty after our initial success. She is getting pretty good at pooping on the floor. (YUCK)
Jordan is starting to use her prosthetic a bit more. She uses it at dinner sometimes. She is using it to work with coloring and other art projects at school. She’s really doing great with her occupational therapist… Mainly because we’re doing therapy at school twice a week. I think I get in the way of therapy.
“Read a book” is a big deal in our house. Jordan is reading up a storm. She loves it when we read, she loves to read, she’s copying her brother’s enjoyment of a good story. Lately she’s been telling me the things she sees on the pages. She really likes Elmo stories, nursery rhymes and baby animals. Her teacher tells me that Jordan is really good at school. She transitions incredibly well. The only thing she does that’s challenging is she does stairs very slow. If I felt off balance, I’d do stair really carefully too. So if that’s the only challenge in her class, I think Jordan is kicking butt. (But we already knew that)
I’m so proud of my girl. This coming month we’re going to try swimming lessons to help build her shoulder strength. I’m considering equestrian therapy as well. I’m just looking for ways to help her continue to gain strength so she can continue to use her prosthetic in more useful ways. If she gets stronger, she’ll be able to use it more.
Beyond therapy and talking… I’m just having fun. I look forward to getting past this work hump and spending more time with the kids. They are growing in so many amazing ways.
What a big girl! I’m so proud for you. Sorry you’re having to work so much. I’m amazed by your ability to balance it all.
Hello Jordan’s Mom,
Mercedes’ Dad here, newborn I-CAN girl in Holts Summit, would like to meet Jordan and Mercedes, she’s got the blues – you know what I mean.
Bangell@Fidnet.com . I pointed to your blog, hope that’s okay.
~ Bryan
Merdedes, lae Age 7
Hello Jordan’s Mom,
Mercedes’ Dad here, newborn I-CAN girl in Holts Summit, would like to meet Jordan and Mercedes, she’s got the blues – you know what I mean.
Bangell@Fidnet.com . I pointed to your blog, hope that’s okay.
~ Bryan
Merdedes, lae Age 7